Safety Tips

Last updated: April 06, 2024

At Vivah Sangam, your safety is our top priority. While meeting new people can be exciting, it’s essential to exercise caution when interacting with someone you don’t know. Use your best judgment and prioritize your safety, whether you’re exchanging initial messages or meeting in person.

Online Safety

Never Share Financial Information or Send Money

  • Never send money through UPI, bank transfer, or any other means, even if someone claims to be in an emergency
  • Be wary of anyone asking for money for “urgent medical treatment,” “customs clearance,” or “travel expenses”
  • Never share your bank account details, UPI ID, or credit/debit card information
  • Report any requests for money to Vivah Sangam immediately
  • For information about avoiding matrimonial fraud, visit the Cyber Crime Portal of India (cybercrime.gov.in)

Protect Your Personal Information

  • Never share sensitive personal information like Aadhaar number, PAN card details, or passport information
  • Keep your home and work addresses private
  • Don’t share details about your daily routine
  • If you have children, avoid sharing their personal information, including names, schools, or photos
  • Be cautious about sharing family details that could compromise your security

Stay on the Platform

  • Keep conversations on Vivah Sangam until you’re confident about the person
  • Be wary if someone insists on moving to WhatsApp or other platforms too quickly
  • Our platform has safety features that aren’t available once you move conversations elsewhere

Be Wary of Long-Distance Matches

  • Exercise extra caution with profiles claiming to be NRIs
  • Be skeptical of anyone avoiding video calls or making excuses not to meet
  • Watch out for profiles claiming to be “stuck abroad” and needing financial help
  • Verify NRI status through proper channels if necessary

Report Suspicious Behavior

Report any user who:

  • Requests money or financial information
  • Harasses or sends inappropriate messages
  • Claims to be underage or misrepresents their identity
  • Shares inappropriate content
  • Exhibits fraudulent behavior
  • Tries to sell products or services
  • Shares commercial links or spam

Meeting in Person

Take Your Time

  • Don’t rush into meeting someone
  • Use video calls to verify identity before meeting
  • Consider having family members involved in initial meetings (as is common in Indian culture)
  • Trust your instincts if something feels wrong

Meet Safely

  • Choose public places in well-populated areas
  • Meet during daylight hours initially
  • Inform family members or friends about your plans
  • Share your live location with trusted contacts
  • Keep your phone charged and with you
  • Consider meeting at reputable restaurants or coffee shops

Transportation Safety

  • Arrange your own transportation
  • Don’t rely on your date for rides
  • Keep ride-sharing apps (Uber/Ola) installed as backup
  • Share your ride details with family/friends
  • Note the number of any auto/taxi you take

Additional Safety Measures

  • Keep your belongings secure
  • Don’t leave drinks unattended
  • Stay alert and aware of your surroundings
  • Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, leave
  • Keep emergency contacts on speed dial

Resources for Help

If you feel you’re in immediate danger:

  • Police Emergency: 112
  • Women’s Helpline: 1091
  • Cyber Crime Helpline: 1930

Additional Resources:

  • National Commission for Women: 011-26942369, 26944754
  • Cyber Crime Portal: cybercrime.gov.in
  • Women’s Safety Apps:
    • Himmat Plus (Delhi Police)
    • Smart24x7
    • Raksha App

State-Specific Women’s Helplines:

  • Delhi Commission for Women: 181
  • Maharashtra Women’s Commission: 022-26592707
  • Karnataka Vanitha Sahayavani: 1091
  • Tamil Nadu Women’s Helpline: 181

Legal Support:

  • National Legal Services Authority (NALSA): nalsa.gov.in
  • State Legal Services Authorities provide free legal aid

Remember - your safety is paramount. While we work to maintain a safe platform, always exercise caution and trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Don’t hesitate to report suspicious behavior or seek help when needed.

Community Guidelines

We maintain strict community guidelines to ensure user safety. Violations of these guidelines will result in immediate action, including potential account termination. Visit our Community Guidelines page to learn more about acceptable behavior on our platform.